If you were to ask me, as her mother, I would say 10 years old is too young for a first date. What boundaries do we need to set, and how will I know when or if she is ready?
As parents of budding preteens, how or when do we even begin the conversation?
And, they may not understand that controlling behaviors and bullying in pre-teen relationships can lead to dating violence and other harm later on.
Start Strong Bronx conducted a parenting program at a school when parents were already there to pick up report cards.
It was only the fourth week of school when my daughter burst into the room and made an announcement. ” My heart skipped a few beats, and within a matter of seconds, every ounce of confidence in my abilities to mother four girls left my body. Realizing that this moment demanded my full attention, I stopped what I was doing, turned around, and stood eye to eye with my beautiful 10-year-old daughter.
Liz Claiborne Inc.'s Love Is Not Abuse campaign asked Rosalind Wiseman, co-founder of the Empower Program, which teaches young people about youth violence prevention, for some tips on dealing with this delicate but important conversation: Q: What's a good setting to have this conversation?Most parents of 11-to-14-year-olds don’t feel prepared to talk to their kids about healthy relationships and teen dating violence.They may not even want to acknowledge that their kids have started dating.When parents talk to their kids about healthy relationships, they help protect kids from dating violence.Middle school is the right time to have those conversations.